What does this method say about me? I don’t like fuss or overworking things. I like to get it done, and move on to more important matters. If it doesn’t work? Then I laugh, forgive myself, and sing a campfire song. I’ve heard that our ability to cook food over a fire is what made our brains so large, what sparked civilization. So making fire makes us human. Once the fire is taken care of? Then we can turn to more important human endeavors, like love.